Let me tell you about the day I chose my submissive desire over comfort...

When I separated from my long-term partner years ago, something cracked open.

PERMISSION.

Permission to taste-test my kinks like an all-you-can-fuck buffet.

Permission to lick the edges of my curiosity and swallow whole the ones that made me shake.

Permission to explore every submissive flavor I’d been too scared, too ashamed, too good to try.

 (The following photos are all from that time period in my life)

I SAID YES to every curiosity

Messy yes. Curious yes.

Holy-fuck-this-is-ME yes.

Some flavors melted on my tongue like honey, or stung my butt cheeks as they spanked me.

Some were bitter and spat out instantly.

Others became obsessions I wanted every single day (hello Shibari lol)

I felt SO GOOD in my desires, I said YES to dropping my entire life, buying a one way ticket to Barcelona to pursue my dreams.

Not only was my pleasure alive: I was taking the scary steps of starting my own biz, done with school, and ready to see what more there was for women like me.

Then...just as I was dripping in this freedom...he came back and suggested I stay.

Dangling the old life I used to think I wanted.

The resentful vanilla weekends.

The meaningless, predictable sex.

The “good girl” mold where my obedience was polite instead of feral.

And I KNEW

If I said yes to him, I was saying...

NO to my Eat, Pray, Sub pilgrimage.

NO to the flavors that had turned me into a woman who could surrender to pleasure one moment and play in new desires the next.

NO to meeting my rawness while bound, to being taken and worshipped in the same breath,
to the cracked-open obedience that made my whole body hum for hours after.

So I said no to him.

And yes to me.

I boarded a one-way flight to Barcelona 5 days later with one promise:

I will explore my submissive desires relentlessly.

The result? 

I got tied up and ravaged on Barcelona roof tops during sunsets...

Skinny dipped in freezing cold Vltava River in Prague with a one night stand who Dommed me just with just the look in his eyes...

Explored exhibitionism while enjoying multiple partners at a sex party in London...

Spanked until my butt cheeks looked like a mural of red and purple in Amsterdam...

Every single moment I got curious about my submissive flavors, I was tasting what was possible.

I was ACTIVATED.

The thing is, you don't need to travel to Europe or pack your whole life into two suitcases to play. 

You just need the AUDACITY to let yourself taste these desires.

WHAT WOULD IT CHANGE FOR YOU IF YOU DID?

• Would you upgrade your pleasure and stop accepting the same old same old?
• Play in your desires that have been tucked in the back of your brain and heart for years?
• Let someone hold and guide your power in a way that makes your mind quiet?
• Change your whole relationship? Revive it? Redefine it?
• Get closer to yourself and your authenticity?
• CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE?

That is the power of tasting what’s possible for you.

That’s the power of saying YES to your kinky, submissive desires. 

And that’s exactly what we’re opening together inside ACTIVATE YOUR SUBMISSION.

THIS IS NOT A WORKSHOP TO “LEARN.” THIS IS A TASTE TEST.

In 90 minutes, we’ll:

• Introduce you to a variety of submissive flavors—and the unique turn-ons of each.
• Show you the gifts and needs of these flavors, and why they balance or benefit your life.
• Give you my Solo Flavor Exploration Guide so you can play with them on your own terms—before bringing them to a partner.
• Crack open the doors of what’s “acceptable” and invite you into what’s alive.

WHAT YOU’LL WALK AWAY WITH

• The Submissive Flavor Discovery Process — name and claim your unique blend.

• Solo Exploration Guide — explore right away, no partner required.

• Clarity on your YES & NO — the foundation of empowered play.

• Exclusive ESA Early Access price before it DOUBLES— payment plans available.

• Chance to win 1 of 3 ESA scholarships — attend live and submit your experience.

This is not a passive workshop.

This is a body-first experience.

This is a reclamation.

A revolution.

A taste test of your desire.

👇 Save your spot and let’s activate your submission.