• Julieta Chiara

Small Finger Vibe?Dame Fin Review

Although penetrative sex is fun, it can be so much better… when adding a vibrator to your clitoris! As we know, only about 20% of women are able to successfully get off from penetration alone. This is due to stimulation of the internal clitoris (lucky them) which I can only accomplish using very specific and curved toys that are either metal or glass (sorry human penises and silicone, its not cutting it).

The vast majority of us vagina owners need to excite our external clitoris to even come close to reaching orgasm- and thats totally fine. 

While we can use our fingers to stimulate our clits, why not use a toy? For two reasons.

1. I have carpal tunnel and it hurts my wrist to play with my clitoris for long periods of time.

2. We can walk to our destination… but why not just take a car?

Vibrators or hand, you still reach climax- just one happens to be incredibly easier for certain people. 

During penetrative sex, I always lay out my arsenal of vibrators. Maybe I’ll start off conservative sized with my fave Lelo Lily 2, or get wild and throw in my beloved Le Wand Massager. While those are my favorites, why not try something I have had my eye on for a long time? Something ergonomic, small, and handy?

The Dame Fin is a finger sized vibe meant to provide clitoral stimulation without getting in the way of the action. You can literally fit it into your pocket, so it would ideally be something you take everywhere. 


I have always praised Dame for their practicality and actually designing things that are meant to go on vulvas. They have shapes that actually make sense, and are ergonomically designed.

For example, Eva 2's wings fit neatly under your labia (for me, this is only in one position, but still pretty fancy). Kip has incredibly ridges to use all around your vulva,  Pom fits in the palm of your hand, and Pillo is actually sturdy enough to help you perform human origami. 

Fin is no different in that it has finger indents for you to comfortably hold it in between your fingers, as well as a finger strap to keep it in place. The base is girthy, but still smaller than most other vibes- and this one won’t slip from your hand! (You can remove the finger strap if you wish).

A simple product, it has 3 steady speeds of vibration, waterproof, and you can charge it on your laptop- I have mine in the color Jade. As always, I love the packaging and care that has been put into the presentation. 

Experience during partnered play