Le Wand Petite: Vibe Queens
We learn from early on that our favorite fairytale characters have magic wands. Well guess what? Little did we know, the most magic we can give ourselves is clitoral stimulation with the wand of all wands, the LeWand Petite Massager.
Growing up, my first exposure to vibrators was seeing someone on television talk about the Hitachi Wand, probably the most famous icon of clit gratifying toys. The traditional Hitachi wand is huge, usually plugs into the wall, and actually was not advertised as a sensual massager. Many “wands” are used for your muscles, which makes sense because these pack a punch.
I have been curious to try this product, since I am a huge supporter of women in the sex toy industry. Founder Alicia Sinclair is always making waves in the community, never failing to show us the true meaning of being a boss babe. Her inventions with LeWand Massagers, The Cowgirl, and BVibe give us all the vibrational inspo + normalization of booty play. Is there anything she can’t do? Perhaps she can’t prove that unicorns are real, but the Le Wand Massager is a close second.
Trust me, I own A LOT of sex toys- and packaging isn’t always a brands forte. Le Wand Petite had sleek and classy packaging, with a simple white box displaying an image of the wand. One thing I love about women owned brands is the amount of effort they put into making sure that their products are represented with care and education. Much like Dame Products, Le Wand Petite came with a pleasure guide to instruct you on how to use it + a incredibly convenient travel case. Keep your sex toys clean and cared for!
PS: When delivered to me, the packaging was super discreet and had no problem getting through Spanish customs, which can be a royal pain in the ass.
What I loved most about this toy is that it has 10 vibrational levels, and 6 different patterns. Personally, I don’t really care about the patterns and enjoy a steady stream of vibrations, building up in intensity. This is extremely versatile compared to other wands, so those who are sensitive to sensation can use it without feeling that it’s too much.
When it comes to design, cordless is the only way to go for me. Especially when using wands during sex, I don’t want to be confined in movement because I need my toy plugged in. The silicone head of the toy is incredibly soft, and you can actually buy other attachments for the head to provide texture, or dual it with internal stimulation. What stands out the most about this wand is the flexible neck- you can apply pressure and it moves with you, so you don’t cause unnecessary abrasion to your genitals or body.
Also… waterproof? Lets make waves in our baths!
First thing is first, I like to let my toys completely charge before using them. The convenient USB cord was plugged into my computer, with the wand being incredibly complimentary to my marble pink aesthetic.
When I was young and naive, I didn’t realize that toys can be incredibly abrasive when not used with lube. As someone who can have multiple orgasms, I used to wonder why my clitoris would get sore after using a toy for an hour- I needed lube!
I paired my wand with Pjur Sensitive Glide, a water based lubricant (never use silicone lubricant with a silicone toy). Exploring my subscription with Erika Lust, I picked a film to watch to get me in the most sultry of moods (you can subscribe here, support ethical porn).
When I initially turned on Le Wand, I was surprised to see just how gentle the first vibrational settings were. With traditional wands, it can feel as if you’re being blasted intensely right off the get go. Even though this is the petite version of Le Wand, the base is big enough to just rest against your clitoris and let the vibration do the work. If you want to add some stimulation, you can also gently move the wand in a circular motion around your vulva and clitoris (for the love of god, use lube for this).